Preheat oven to 400°F (200°C). Bring a large pot of salted water to a boil.
Cook pasta for 8–9 minutes until tender. Reserve 1 cup pasta water before draining.
Return drained pasta to the pot over very low heat. Add reserved pasta water and milk, stirring to combine.
Gradually fold in 8 oz shredded cheese, 1–2 oz at a time, stirring until smooth and creamy. Season with salt and pepper.
Transfer mac and cheese to an oven-safe baking dish or skillet. Stir in the pulled BBQ chicken evenly.
Sprinkle remaining 2 oz cheese over the top. Drizzle with additional BBQ sauce if desired.
Bake for 8–10 minutes until cheese is melted and bubbly.
Let rest for 5 minutes before serving your BBQ Chicken Mac and Cheese.